Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Remember...It may be a Stroke of Luck!



I recently saw this posted on Facebook and stored it away until I could write out this post. You always hear "Hindsight is 20:20" and other statements, but this one really rang true for me recently.

My husband and I were in the process of buying a house in the Hudson Valley when Hurricane Sandy blew through the area and destroyed the property. At least 40-50 trees were blown down on the property and the remains of the walls of the old stone barn, which was one of the main reasons we wanted to buy the property, had crumbled when the roots of the trees were uprooted. It took three weeks before we could get down the road to the house for the inspection. When we got down there we found a total mess and knew that we couldn't buy the property. We were crushed as we had been looking for over a year and felt like this was "THE ONE"!

Flash forward a few months and my husband's Broadway show closed several months earlier than expected. While we felt a relief not to have two mortgages it was the height of the summer and we were dreaming of the barbecues with friends and planting flower and vegetable gardens in the yard!

I was up in the area a few weeks ago and I had to show my friends "the house that got away". As we drove down the gravel road towards the house looking at all of the trees that were blown down by the storm, a truck pulled up directly in front of our car and blocked my access to go any further. A man got out of the truck and asked what we were doing down this road. I told him I had almost purchased the house and he said "well, you really dodged a bullet". Turns out the previous owner had misrepresented the amount of land that was included in the purchase, there was no dedicated power line to the house (it was running illegally off of the neighbor's power line), no phone/cable lines or ways to install them, and the owner had failed to clear the fallen trees as promised after the closing. He also said he stopped the car because people were illegally hunting on the land and he was trying to track them down.

I started writing this post a few weeks ago - and at the time I was feeling very blessed that we were saved from all of the many hassles that would have come with the purchase of that property. While we couldn't see it at the time, we really were being taken care of and I was finally able to move on past the sense of loss that I felt.

Today I experienced a personal disappointment and while going through the emotions of that I remembered I had never finished writing this blog post, which was so relevant to the current situation as well! I realized that while it is okay for me to feel disappointed that this thing didn't happen, I have to trust that it wasn't the right situation at this time for whatever reason I do not, and may not ever, know.

I am glad that I can look back at my recent experience with the house and realize that perhaps this too was actually a blessing in disguise!

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

The Star of Your Own Show by Angel Lopez

I feel so fortunate to open Facebook each day and read inspiring messages from friends like Angel Lopez! 

His blog "Astrology Realness" is just that! It is a place where he shares his hopes, dreams, fears, challenges and relates them back to what is going on astrologically at that period of time. His courage to share his personal journey with everyone was one of the reasons I started this blog. I find his posts so insightful that I wanted to share information that I find so helpful as I navigate this thing called life.

This post is about how it is time for action. The fire sign Aries has arrived, Spring has sprung, and it is time for new beginnings and change. This relates to me on so many levels - like my finally sitting down and starting a blog that I have been talking about for at least 6 months!

For Angel's thoughts on each individual sun sign visit the site at 
http://astrologyrealness.com/2013/04/10/its-time-to-be-the-star-of-your-own-show/

To learn more about Angel or to schedule a personal reading, visit his website at http://astrologyrealness.com/about/

And be sure to like his Astrology Realness Facebook Page for updates!

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It’s Time To Be the Star of Your Own Show

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Are you ready for the spotlight of your soulful awakening?
Like most of you, I am looking for a new beginning.  But what I have realized is that it’s not going to come in the form of a new job, a move, or a lottery ticket.  It is going to come from the inside out, so I must start by shifting how I think and feel about myself.  You see, I have been clinging on to pieces of outdated fiction that have structured my internal story, and I am finally able to see them for just that – stories.  Simply remnants from the young me that are unwilling to be left behind.  Old mentalities.  Wicked fears.  Childhood regrets and insecurities.  I have known of their existence for some time now, but my mind just could not detach.  They created a sense of safety, as they had been all I knew.  So even when I told myself it was time to let them go, it was just the old me creating a moment of self sabotage.  I knew I wouldn’t really be strong enough to detach.  Until now.
Given all the intense astrological business that’s been going on these last few months, I have crafted some new habits for myself.  They are allowing me to get some distance from the outdated thinking that was holding on for dear life.  Sure, there’s always a chance I’ll slip and end up eating a whole chocolate cake to myself, metaphorically speaking.  (Mine would be a carrot cake.)  But I have to believe that a new beginning is possible, one that I can cease and own.  I have to believe in myself.  For only from honest self-belief can one be inspired to birth his or her greatness.
Spring is here and the planets want us to move into action in a big way
The Aries new moon is here to illuminate the essence of our truest potential so that we can bring a soul-felt new beginning into existence for ourselves.  These last couple of months have been a lot of “who am I?” and “What do I need right now?” moments.  Lots of starts that have gotten us closer to our dreams, but then some stops too, which has made it all rather frustrating at times.  What we must realize is that there were some much-needed tweaks to our internal selves that needed to occur before we could manifest our goals.  Now hopefully you have been doing the internal work to get you more in touch with those necessary shifts you must make.  If not, stop reading and get to work.  Or just make this new moon all about initiating a more honest relationship with you.
A new cycle is upon us.  Spring is here and the planets want us to move into action in a big way.  No more daydreaming.  As some would say, it’s time to shit or get off the pot.  Either we are taking responsibility for the soul transformation into our new unique selves that wants to occur, or we are running away, perhaps never to be heard from again.  And you wouldn’t do that, right?
Let this Aries new moon be your opening number
I hear a lot of you feeling this shift – this urge to break out of old patterns (relationships, careers, ways of being) and really bring the real you to light.  Well now is “make it or break it” time.  And I want to see you succeed.  Think of it as if you have been working behind the scenes on the play of your life this whole time, and now it’s time to take center stage.  Are you ready for the spotlight of your soulful awakening?  Is it time to get out there and give it all you got?  Let this Aries new moon be your opening number.

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Fight Fire with Fire: Wands and New Moon in Aries

My dear friend Sulo Turner has given astrology and tarot readings to me for over 15 years. I treasure the time we have together talking about these subjects, looking back at past readings and discussing our dreams for the future and how it all ties together!

Sulo recently launched a website and posted a wonderful article about the Wands in the Tarot Deck. I wanted to share this with today, which is the New Moon in Aries. Aries is a fire sign. Wands represent the element of Fire. Get the connection....

I hope you enjoy his insight into the Wands of the Tarot Deck! Check out his site for information on other cards as well as posts about astrology!

You can also schedule an astrology reading with Sulo here!

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Ace through Ten of Wands

Wands are the fire element and they represent movement, confidence, energy, passion, drive, and enthusiasm. The journey of ace through ten shows a progression of growth, like the buds springing from the Wands on each card. In their most positive expression, Wands are great doers and starters because they have an itch for adventure, combined nicely with the drive to accomplish something. But like all elements, Wands have their downside. Too much confidence can result in hubris, too much adventure and running around can turn to scatteredness, dillententism, exhaustion, impossibly high ideals. Wands may favor “the process” more than any other element, the getting there moreso than the arriving. Yet, Wands are one of the most social of the four elements and they have a grand view of triumph and celebration. They are no strangers to the party.

Ace of Wands
Here the opportunity/gift from the universe is confidence and drive, a spark of ignition. The energy is literally “at hand.” This is a point of beginning, and you should pay attention to and be guided by your passion. Reversing this ace suggests a block to the energy, something is preventing it from igniting.






Two of Wands. A balance has been achieved, and accomplishments now bolster the self worth. There is an ability to build on past achievemnts,  a new perspective that gives the fire and drive some vision and planning. The world is your oyster, but as always with Wands, cockiness can overtake, so proceed with the humility the figure in the card invites. Reversing the card might result in impatience. “Enough of this planning already, I want to get moving!”





Three of Wands.  Manifestation now creates a launchpad for exploration. Through the fruition of ideas, experience and plans, a passionate pursuit can come to life. The expedition is under way. But reverse the card, and the exploration is not so successful or its necessity is ignored. Some piece of experience is missing and can’t be faked.






Four of Wands. Reward, stability, and results give the village cause to celebrate. As with all fours, the sheer stability of it all is palpable. The walls of the fortress serve as backdrop now and not as protective enclosure. Confidence and a sense of safety lead the way. But reversing any four upsets the perfect balance it depicts in the upright. Suspicion, overprotection and instability can ensue, making it hard to relax.





Five of Wands. There is a healthy competitive nature in the sparring taking place in this card. In the proper context, this is a productive activity. Now the fire can be alternately offensive and defensive. But fives bring challenges, adjustments,  and difficulties, so there is a struggle to stay on the right side of fair play when the card gets reversed.






Six of Wands. Sixes typically depict hierarchy and exchange, and in Wands this takes place in the context of a triumphal parade of sorts. Parades are public celebrations of life’s bigger passages, and with the fire of Wands this shows up in social roles and their manifestation in everyday life. Proper authority and decorum will assist the current pursuit to its successful culmination. But reverse the card and the social thread is cut, which can result in isolation, mistrust of authority and malaise.




Seven of Wands. Contemplation, assessment, planning are what sevens are all about. In Wands, this spells S-T-R-A-T-E-G-Y. The card depicts the heat of the moment, when energy and engagement are at your maximum disposal. Wands love to be “in it,” to revel in the process, perfecting their style as they go. Competition clearly energizes the character in this card. But reverse the seven of Wands, and he is blocked  in energy or production. He can’t sustain the stamina the upright version of the card demands. Perhaps now would be a better time to plan than to act, as both are equally valuable contributions to strategizing.


Eight of Wands. Here we see movement that has been brought about by intention. The culmination of a pursuit is near, as the airborn wands are returning to ground. Energy and drive have produced results which are tangible or soon to be. When this card is reversed, the flight is still in midair. Final touchdown is subject to more rounds of trial, error and refinement.






Nine of Wands. Here we see the exhaustion that an overabundance of Wands tends toward. Maturity and self-acceptance can manifest in Wands as weary vigilance. The man depicted in the card has lots to show for all his activity and expended energy, but certainly tires from the intensity of it all. Yet his pride is apparent. Wands have a tough time with the concept of retirement, so they tend to hold vigil long after it may be necessary. However, some situations in life demand this sort of fortitude and Wands will deliver. Reverse this nine, and he is forced to put down his wand. Fatigue cannot be denied as Wands assimilate the diffiult lesson of rest. It might require enforcement from outside sources.


Ten of Wands. Now we’ve moved beyond exhaustion to overload. Tens are filled with excess, exaggeration, and always carry a lesson of loss of simplicity. With the drive of fire, we’re faced with the stubborn need to be seen as vital and the refusal to delegate or pass the baton. Wands struggle with a hero complex, but the hunched back says it all. This ten is just waiting to be reversed so he can put down all those Wands, a sometimes wrenching but necessary phase of Wands’ development. Otherwise, thay would never know when to stop.